Married life is tough. It is based upon trust, love, commitment and faithfulness. Sometimes that commitment is broken, and infidelity occurs on one or both spouses’ parts. The infidelity may not be confirmed, you only suspect it is happening. How can you be sure if your partner is being unfaithful to you?
When a lot of the following “events” happen, you may want to start asking a few questions of your spouse. Start writing these events down to actually see if they are happening a lot or if you just feel like they are a common occurrence.
- Mysterious Meetings. Your spouse’s normal routine is punctuated by frequent evening meetings. These meetings may happen every night of the week, including Fridays. Are they really meetings for work, or a meeting of a more secret nature?
- Excessive Work. Granted, overtime does happen in a lot of career paths. But is overtime suddenly scheduled for every day and every weekend of your spouse’s life? Have they never had overtime before, but all of a sudden, it’s happening three, four or more times in a week? Work may have become an excuse for playtime.
- Strange Behavior. Do you come home from work and find your spouse hanging up the phone quickly? Are they absent from home or work when they supposed to be there? Do they hide clothing, receipts or other things from you? The strange behavior may not be new, but should be thoroughly investigated.
- Unexplained Expenses. Is the checking account balance lower than it should be? Are there unexplained charges on the credit card? Has your partner been withdrawing a lot of cash from the ATM? See if this phenomenon of missing money can be explained.
To find the answer to these strange occurrences, you can do one of two things. You can flat out ask them about the behavior and if they are cheating on you. They may be open and honest and admit or deny any wrongdoing. But you may not get an honest answer, which leads you to option number two, spy on them. A private investigator can tail a person and find out where they are truly hanging out. Whether it is work, a bar or a mysterious person’s place, they can give you a definite answer and solve your mystery.